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Dec 31 2019

The Year in Review

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Everyone has their holiday obligations. At least I brought this one on myself. Sixteen years ago, I found this questionnaire, and I’ve been filling it out every December since. 2018, 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004 and 2003. Five years ago, I decided I was going to add a few new questions every year from now on. I’m not really doing that anymore. But the ones I added are still marked with an *asterisk

2019 was a strange one. I got a skin cancer, so that sucked. And then it sort of overshadowed everything once it happened. It tripled my baseline anxiety level, and I used it as an excuse to break every good fitness habit I started in 2018. Yet, I somehow managed to keep everything together. All three businesses are flourishing, and we just opened a coffee shop. How I manage to do everything I do is beyond me, but I just keep wanting to do more.

Anyway, here’s my year in review.

What did you do in 2019 that you’d never done before? Skated in a holiday ice show, December 6.

Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I didn’t make any. My entire life is comprised of lists that this point. I would say I make resolutions daily, so annual ones…don’t really matter. 🙂

Did anyone close to you give birth? No.

Did anyone close to you die? No.

What countries did you visit? None — I hardly did any traveling at all this year. But I did spent a few days in New Orleans, a few days in Durham, and a few days in Newport Rhode Island.

What would you like to have in 2020 that you lacked in 2019? A new car!

What date from 2019 will remain etched upon your memory? April 9.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? Opening a coffee shop.

What was your biggest failure? Losing focus on exercising every day.

Did you suffer illness or injury? Let’s see. I had vertigo for several weeks in February. I was diagnosed with a stage 1A melanoma in March. I broke my toe by dropping a full bottle of rum on my foot in August (while I had a terrible sinus infection). I burnt the shit out of my hand on the stove Labor Day weekend. I’m currently an issue with my feet because my ice skates were too small, and I’m nursing a nasty bruisy bump on one knee from a recent skating fall. So…yeah. Bang-up year.

What was the best thing you bought? Fetco batch brewer, Mahlkoenig grinder, three Room phone booths, and a fleece-lined figure skating dress. Oh, and two pairs of Birkenstocks for all my foot injuries. #hippieshoes

Whose behavior merited celebration? Lauren’s for driving me to my surgery, and sticking around the entire time I was waiting to get started. Meagan’s for picking me up and taking me to get a donut after. And everyone else’s who listened to me freak out about melanoma for the weeks leading up to my surgery and every day ever since. Alyssa’s and Lucia’s for all their hard work on Port & Starboard projects this year. Jeff’s for being a really supportive business partner. And the rest of our team’s for doing a great job every day.

Where did most of your money go? Same as last year — payroll, coffee beans, furniture, rent. Oh, and a few thousand to medical bills.

What did you get really, really, really excited about? Going for the first donut run of the season!

What song will always remind you of 2019? “Healing” by Rebelution

Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? Sadder
Thinner or fatter? Fatter
Richer or poorer? I feel poorer because I’ve spent so much money, but maybe richer because our companies are probably worth more than last year…

What do you wish you’d done more of? Traveling.

What do you wish you’d done less of? Worrying.

How will you be spending Christmas? I headed up to New Jersey for Christmas, but a little earlier than usual. The Bassani family gathered for grandma’s birthday/early Christmas Eve on Saturday. Sunday, Joelle, Aunt Angel, Uncle Cricket, my parents, Stephen, Emily and I went into NYC for the day. I skated at Bryant Park! We shopped around, saw the tree, and had dinner at Vincent’s in Little Italy. We went to Aunt Gail and Uncle Bobby’s for Christmas Eve. Christmas Day was pretty low key — opened presents in the morning. Dinner late afternoon with my grandparents. Took my parents to see Star Wars that night. Then I left early Thursday, picked up Jeff, and headed back.

Did you fall in love in 2019? No.

Who were your best friends? In alphabetical order: Kristy, Jeff, John, Vince

What thing did you do that was meaningful to others? Taught everyone about the best sunscreens?

What was your favorite TV program? Game of Thrones, I guess. I watched all the seasons leading up to the last one.

Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? No.

What was the best book you read? I reread The True Confessions of Charlotte Doyle by Avi one afternoon. And it was amazing.

What was your greatest musical discovery? “Good Time” by Ocean Park Standoff.

*What was your favorite meal? Lunch. Or maybe the night Drew and I wandered around New Orleans and ate and drank a little of something at a few different places.

What did you want and get? A coffee shop.

What did you want and not get? A new car.

What was your favorite film of this year? The Rise of Skywalker.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I was 38. I was recovering from surgery. I went to work. I went to dinner at Il Giardino with Amie. My parents came to town over the weekend, and we went to Beachside Social for shuffleboard, then to Pacifica for dinner.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Not getting a stupid skin cancer.

What kept you sane? Ice skating, UPF 50 clothing, sunscreen, beach umbrella.

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? I have no idea.

What political issue stirred you the most? I give up on political issues.

*What mystery from 2019 was never solved? What’s our next door neighbor doing in his backyard?

Who did you miss? The sun.

Who was the best new person you met this year? Lucia Labella, our Salesforce Admin/BA at Port & Starboard.

*Did you start any new traditions this year? This is probably more of a habit than a tradition, but in September, I started using a notebook to keep track of my days again. Writing things down (instead of just typing them) makes it so much easier for me to keep track of things. I’m on my 47th page of my second notebook so far since then!

Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2019: Worrying doesn’t usually change the outcome of a situation.

Quote that sums up your year: “You know?”

Dec 31 2018

The Year in Review

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Fifteen years ago, I found this questionnaire, and I’ve been filling it out every December since. 2017, 2016, 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004 and 2003. Four years ago, I decided I was going to add a few new questions every year from now on. I’m not really doing that anymore. But the ones I added are still marked with an *asterisk

2018 was an overall amazing year. I accomplished a lot. I minimized my wardrobe; I became super active; I spent more time outdoors than I have since I was a kid! On the other hand, I also struggled with so many bouts of anxiety and depression through most of it. But with the help of some sudoku puzzles, lots of hobbies, so many beautiful sunrises, and a few good friends, it’s been a great year overall.

Anyway, here’s my year in review.

What did you do in 2018 that you’d never done before? Rappelled down a 60-foot tower and shot a gun at Panthera Training Center.

Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I didn’t make any for the first time in 14 years. I might make some for 2019 — haven’t decided quite yet.

Did anyone close to you give birth? No.

Did anyone close to you die? Yes. My cat Kona died in November.

What countries did you visit? None — I hardly did any traveling at all this year.

What would you like to have in 2019 that you lacked in 2018? I can’t think of anything at the moment, honestly.

What date from 2018 will remain etched upon your memory? June 15.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? Exercising every single day after May 24. Passing my first two adult figure skating tests on November 4. Receiving the Hampton Roads Chamber of Commerce Entrepreneur of the Year award.

What was your biggest failure? Overthinking a lot of things.

Did you suffer illness or injury? I fell ice skating a whole bunch of times. Mentally, I was kind of an anxious mess most of the time. Oh, and I fell out of my hammock one day over the summer. That was stupid.

What was the best thing you bought? New figure skates and an Apple Watch.

Whose behavior merited celebration? Jeremiah Kille‘s for painting the most amazing mural of all time on the back of 1701. Kate Pittman’s for single-handedly organizing an awesome mural festival this spring. Also, mine for losing 20 pounds. And Jeff’s for inspiring me to be healthier with the Apple Watch plan.

Where did most of your money go? Same as last year — payroll, coffee beans, furniture, rent (business and personal).

What did you get really, really, really excited about? The longest beach day ever on the 4th of July.

What song will always remind you of 2018?Special by Predator Dub Assassins

Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? About the same.
Thinner or fatter? Thinner
Richer or poorer? Richer

What do you wish you’d done more of? Traveling.

What do you wish you’d done less of? Worrying.

How will you be spending Christmas? I headed up to New Jersey for Christmas, as usual. My brother and I went to see Streetlight Manifesto on Friday and Saturday night. I went skating at my old rink three mornings in a row. My mom and I went to Kristy’s for a party on Sunday night. On Christmas Eve, we had dinner at my grandparents’ house with all of my aunts, uncles, and cousins. Then I did my usual last-minute gift-wrapping in my parents’ basement. (I refuse to own my own wrapping paper.) On Christmas morning, I opened gifts with my parents and my brother, and then I went for a three-mile walk. We had dinner at my cousin Alison’s house. Wednesday morning, I left early to drive to Easton, PA to pick up my business partner and come back to VB.

Did you fall in love in 2018? No.

Who were your best friends? In alphabetical order: Kristy, Jeff, John, Vince

What thing did you do that was meaningful to others? I dropped Vince off and picked him up from the airport a bunch of times when it was super early and super late.

What was your favorite TV program? Scandal (mostly because it was so many seasons long and kept me distracted when I couldn’t sleep for a few weeks!)

Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? No.

What was the best book you read? Surviving in Spirit by Mélanie Berliet

What was your greatest musical discovery? Predator Dub Assassins

*What was your favorite meal? One night over the summer, we couldn’t decide where to eat, so we went to Pacifica, and then we went to Eat, and then we went to Mojito, and then we went to Chicho’s, and we ate one thing at each place, and it was pretty fun.

What did you want and get? A personal assistant.

What did you want and not get? A quick late-summer/early-autumn weekend trip within driving distance. (Again.)

What was your favorite film of this year? The Spy Who Dumped Me was pretty funny.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I was 37. Went to lunch. Landed my loop jump at the ice skating rink. Had an early appetizer/drink with John, followed by dinner and dessert at the Melting Pot with Amie.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Not owning a cat.

What kept you sane? Riding my bicycle, ice skating, walking, running, sudoku puzzles.

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? I have no idea.

What political issue stirred you the most? I give up on political issues.

*What mystery from 2018 was never solved? Where did the fleas come from?

Who did you miss? It’s funny, when I have a lot of anxiety, I end up missing the people I see all the time when I’m not around them. I think it’s because they’re great at distracting me from my thoughts, and they make me feel really comfortable even when I’m having bad days.

Who was the best new person you met this year? Alyssa Strackbein, our community manager at 1701.

*Did you start any new traditions this year? Yes. I realized I could watch the oceanfront fireworks every Wednesday and Sunday night out my bedroom window all summer long, so I did.

Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2018: There is a term for the way I often approach perceived problems by not “doing” anything. It’s called Wu wei.

Quote that sums up your year: “I’m going for a walk.”

Dec 31 2017

The Year in Review

By Lisa D. year in review No Comments

Fourteen years ago, I found this questionnaire, and I’ve been filling it out every December since. See? 2016, 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004 and 2003. Three years ago, I decided I was going to add a few new questions every year from now on. I’m not really doing that anymore. But the ones I added are still marked with an *asterisk

2017 was BUSY. The coworking space, Fathom Coffee, and our technology consulting company are all growing. We have about 70 coworking members, a bigger roaster on order, and some really amazing IT clients who consider us a part of their teams. We’ve accomplished a lot over the last year, and have some even more exciting things up our sleeves for 2018.

Anyway, here’s my year in review.

What did you do in 2017 that you’d never done before? Served on a non-profit board, played golf, .

Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I think so. I never posted my resolutions on my blog this year, but I did jot them all down on some post-it notes. I’ll take a look tomorrow and see how I did. I have a feeling I knocked a bunch of them out.

Did anyone close to you give birth? Yes. Tina had a daughter, Essie, on December 21.

Did anyone close to you die? No.

What countries did you visit? A little bit of this one — got six or seven new stamps in my National Park Passport this year! Lake Mead NRA, Death Valley NP, Joshua Tree NP, Santa Monica Mountains NRA, Shenandoah NP, and Eastern Shore National Wildlife Refuge.

What would you like to have in 2018 that you lacked in 2017? A vehicle with a functioning defroster.

What date from 2017 will remain etched upon your memory? Honestly, this year has been a whirlwind. Been racking my brain, and I can’t come up with one.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? Probably just making it though the entire year without having to go find a job and work for someone else again. 🙂

What was your biggest failure? Failing to recognize when people were taking advantage of my generosity and continuing to help those people at my own expense. Also failing to make it to NJ over the summer because my car is an idiot.

Did you suffer illness or injury? I got sick in late January with a nasty cold that left me with a lingering cough until April. In May, I tripped while I was running, and banged up my knee pretty badly — it wasn’t back to normal until September!

What was the best thing you bought? This sofa and swivel chair from West Elm to decorate my new house!

Whose behavior merited celebration? My brother’s for making some really tricky decisions, landing a sweet new job, and moving to Northern Virginia, without spending too much time worrying, sulking, or generally wasting time.

Where did most of your money go? Payroll, coffee beans, furniture, rent (business and personal).

What did you get really, really, really excited about? Moving into a sweet new house.

What song will always remind you of 2017? Feel It Still by Portugal. The Man. My brother says listen to this song while watching this video, and tell him it doesn’t look like they’re dancing to it.

Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? About the same.
Thinner or fatter? About the same.
Richer or poorer? Probably richer. I don’t have a lot of accessible cash, but I’ve got it all invested in businesses that are growing, so I’m going with richer.

What do you wish you’d done more of? Traveling.

What do you wish you’d done less of? Giving things away for free.

How will you be spending Christmas? I headed up to New Jersey for Christmas, as usual. I traveled with a coffee grinder and brewing kit, and a whole bunch of Fathom Coffee to brew and give away as gifts. It was a record-breaking 12 hours from the time I left VB until I got to my parents’ house because I took a scenic detour to the Eastern Shore National Wildlife Refuge and I stopped at the Nordstrom in Delaware to do some last-minute shopping on my way up. On Christmas Eve, we did lunch at my grandparents’ house with all of my aunts, uncles, and cousins. I spent about three hours making coffee there. After that, we swung by my Uncle Bobby and Aunt Gail’s house, where they surprised me with a delicious flounder francese and gluten-free pasta! Then I made my fourth annual late-night Christmas Eve drop-in at Regina’s before I went home to open pajamas and go to bed. Oh wait, before I went to bed, I wrapped my parents’ Christmas gifts in the basement. I did manage to work in giving each of them an empty box wrapped in Star Wars paper. Each said (on the inside of the box), “Want to go see Star Wars later?” 🙂 On Christmas morning, I opened gifts with my parents while we talked to my brother in Japan on Facebook Messenger Video. (Fancy.) We had a quiet dinner with my grandparents, and then we went to the movies. Tuesday morning, I had an early breakfast with Kristy, then went back to her house to see Frank and the kids. In lieu of my normal day-after-Christmas shopping, I visited a chilly warehouse full of mid-century furniture I can’t afford, and then I picked up Regina for a coffee adventure to South Plainfield! We visited Royal Coffee New York to pick up 268 pounds of Kenyan and Ethiopian beans for me to bring back to VB. We were treated to a pretty detailed tour of the entire facility, so that was pretty awesome. On the way home, Kerri called me out of the blue — she was in NJ to see her grandmother — and we were able to squeeze in a quick meeting for coffee before I met up with my mom and Ryan for dinner at Taka in Asbury Park. On Wednesday morning, I met up with Ed, Jane and Aidan for breakfast, which was fun and delicious. I love that with my New Jersey friends, we never waste a bunch of time talking about what we did that year — we just pick up old conversations right where we left off even if we haven’t spoken in months or years. My mom and I did a little shopping on Wednesday afternoon. Then Linda and Jimmy arrived, and we went out for Italian food with them and my Aunt Debbie. I left first thing Thursday morning to come home with my coffee delivery. 🙂 That was the longest answer to this question ever.

Did you fall in love in 2017? No.

Who were your best friends? In alphabetical order: Amie, Jeff, John, Stephen, Vince.

What thing did you do that was meaningful to others? I helped a whole lot of people start and grow businesses.

What was your favorite TV program? The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Stranger Things

Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? Nah. Hate’s a strong word.

What was the best book you read? Chasing Slow by Erin Loechner (Thanks for swapping books with me, Sheena!)

What was your greatest musical discovery? Beta Love by Ra Ra Riot.

*What was your favorite meal? The day we moved into the new house, I discovered we had this really cool griddle on our stove. The next morning — even though we didn’t even have anywhere to sit yet — I invited friends over for breakfast, and we all had pancakes, eggs, bacon, coffee, and mimosas around the counter. We’ve been eating pancakes at least once a week ever since.

What did you want and get? A dishwasher at 1701.

What did you want and not get? A quick late-summer/early-autumn weekend trip within driving distance.

What was your favorite film of this year? The Last Jedi.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I was 36. Drank coffee we roasted from Maui that is the most amazing thing on the planet. Went to lunch outside at Rudee’s. Celebrated at 1701 with a cake. Went to dinner at Jessy’s Taqueria.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Not owning a cat.

What kept you sane? Coffee, ToDoist, Xero, Evernote, good music, YouTube videos about minimalism, moving into a new house and getting rid of a bunch of stuff.

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? I have no idea.

What political issue stirred you the most? Still sticking with my 2015 answer: Donald Trump is ridiculous. Also, National Parks.

*What mystery from 2017 was never solved? Who is Oceanfront9?

Who did you miss? Grandma Tillie, Courtney, my brother after he moved away, my parents because I didn’t really get to see them much this year.

Who was the best new person you met this year? Drew Monroe at Prosper Insurance.

*Did you start any new traditions this year? We celebrated 1701’s first birthday with lunch and a cake! And hopefully it becomes a tradition going to the Chesapeake Bay Wine Classic Foundation’s Grand Auction because that event was pretty incredible.

Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2017: Don’t run in shoes that are a half size too big. And pick up your feet.

Quote that sums up your year: “So how’s your Salesforce?”

Dec 31 2016

The Year in Review

By Lisa D. year in review 2 Comments

Thirteen years ago, I found this questionnaire, and I’ve been filling it out every December since. See? 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010, 2009, 2008, 2007, 2006, 2005, 2004 and 2003. Two years ago, I decided I was going to add a few new questions every year from now on. I’m not really doing that anymore. But the ones I added are still marked with an *asterisk.

This post is going to sound a little redundant. My business partner and I opened a coworking space this year. Thinking about it, working on it, and working in it take up a majority of my time at the moment, and it’s definitely the thing I’m the most excited about and proud of right now. So I’m basically going to talk about it over and over and over again in this post. 🙂

Overall, 2016 was pretty amazing. The first half was full of epic vacations. The second was full of business successes. Can’t ask for much more than that.

Anyway, here’s my year in review.

What did you do in 2016 that you’d never done before? Rode a jet ski, snorkeled with a turtle, drove on the opposite side of the road, leased a commercial building.

Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I only had one real resolution, and I kept it. I will probably go back to my normal list for next year.

Did anyone close to you give birth? No.

Did anyone close to you die? No.

What countries did you visit? A little bit of this one plus the USVI and BVI.

What would you like to have in 2017 that you lacked in 2016? The perfect project/task management system for a team. I’ve tested so many, but I’m still looking for the right one.

What date from 2016 will remain etched upon your memory? June 8th – We signed the lease on 1701 Baltic Avenue and opened a coworking space.

What was your biggest achievement of the year? Turning off an old quoting system at the company where I used to work (without anything going drastically wrong, anyone crying or complaining about it, and hardly anyone in a high-level position outside of the department changing systems even realizing we had switched). Making this sweet video of my trip to Florida with my mom. Opening a coworking space in Virginia Beach, filling it up with furniture and members, and creating a real community where people have begun collaborating on projects and working together.

What was your biggest failure? I’m so far from being a failure right now that I’m not even going to justify this with an answer this year. 🙂

Did you suffer illness or injury? I got a mosquito bite in St. John that hung around on my shoulder for so long that I actually gave it a name. Ursula. Other than that, the closest thing to an injury was probably the huge red welt that popped up on my arm after I got a flu shot in October…and took a few weeks to go away.

What was the best thing you bought? This waterproof camera housing for my iPhone that enabled me to take some really amazing photos on my two vacations earlier in the year.

Whose behavior merited celebration? Anyone who had anything to do with getting 1701 up and running: Ray for helping us find the building. Joel for telling us to go for it. Peter for becoming our first member. 39 other people for becoming members after that. John, Bob, Susan, Monique, Jordan, Tommy, Willie, Sam, Alexis, Michelle, Courtney, Laurie, Lindsay, Louis, Mike, my parents, Mary, Alex, Shawn, Tommy, Fred, and anyone else who painted, built furniture, carted debris out of here, delivered us pizzas, manned the front desk, promoted us, gave people tours who walked in off the street, accepted UPS packages, hung art on the walls, posted about us online, prepped for an event, sold coffee, and/or helped us in pretty much any and every way possible to get this place up and running. Kelsey for painting this incredible mural on our wall. My parents for loaning me a few dollars here and there when I needed it. And Jeff for being the best business partner I could have found in this world.

Where did most of your money go? Into my businesses, mostly 1701.

What did you get really, really, really excited about? This sea turtle (and opening a coworking space).

What song will always remind you of 2016? Native Tongue by Quinn XCII. My cousin played it for me the day she moved in for the summer, and I’ve had it on repeat on and off ever since.

Compared to this time last year, are you:
Happier or sadder? Happier.
Thinner or fatter? About the same.
Richer or poorer? I can’t really tell. I have less cash, but I invested it all in my businesses, so we’ll see.

What do you wish you’d done more of? Trusting my first impressions of people.

What do you wish you’d done less of? Crying about my old job, trying to please my old team, giving people I didn’t trust right off the bat the benefit of the doubt.

How will you be spending Christmas? I headed up to New Jersey for Christmas, as usual. I baked gluten-free cookies with my mom. My brother’s ship came back Christmas Eve, so we watched some footage of that live on Facebook. I spent Christmas Eve at my grandparents’ house with my parents, aunts, uncles and not-so-little cousins. I stopped at Kristy’s, then Regina’s after that. Regina gave me the Oregon Trail card game as a gift, and we played it. It’s for 2-6 players, but the goal is to get to the end with at least one person in your wagon still alive, so we played with four imaginary players: Steve (our friend who couldn’t make Christmas Eve this year), Tater (Regina’s dog), Porkchop (Regina’s other dog), and Colby (Regina’s bird). We won. On Christmas morning, I opened gifts with my parents, and we went to my Uncle Cricket and Aunt Angel’s house for dinner. I spent Monday shopping with my mom, and then catching up with Ed, Jane, Ren, Robin, Aidan and Jennilee! On Tuesday morning, I met one of the owners of Cowerks in Asbury Park and then had lunch with my mom, Ryan, and his mom before headed back.

Did you fall in love in 2016? No.

How many one-night stands? I said last year I was deleting this. So deleted.

Who were your best friends? John, Regina, Kristy, Jeff, Courtney, Courtney, Tina, Michelle.

What thing did you do that was meaningful to others? I’ve been trying to do things that are meaningful to others every day — help them with websites, Salesforce, building businesses, and making them coffee. I love making people coffee. 🙂

What was your favorite TV program? Good Girls Revolt, Mozart in the Jungle.

Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? Yup.

What was the best book you read? Grace Hopper and the Invention of the Information Age by Kurt W. Beyer.

What was your greatest musical discovery? Sonos.

*What was your favorite meal? Courtney moved in with me for the summer, and there was this one night we went to Beach Movie Bistro. I have no idea which movie we saw, but we ordered an impressive amount of items off the menu. We ate enough for eight people, and it was amazing.

What did you want and get? A new mattress.

What did you want and not get? A dishwasher for 1701/Fathom Coffee.

What was your favorite film of this year? Moana.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? I was 35. I had brunch with a few friends at Metropolitan Oyster Exchange, and then went shopping with Cassie. Later I had dinner with John. And the following weekend, we celebrated again at the Jimmy Buffett concert with my parents, Amie, and Byron.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? I can’t really think of any a single thing. This year was pretty satisfying.

What kept you sane? Coffee, Evernote, Smartsheet, good music, Salesforce, smart people, ToDoist, sunshine, running, Xero. (Or maybe Xero made me feel insane. I’m not sure.)

Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? I have no idea.

What political issue stirred you the most? Sticking with my 2015 answer: Donald Trump is ridiculous.

*What mystery from 2016 was never solved? Will people get towed if they park in the lot behind our building?

Who did you miss? Grandma Tillie, Mele, my brother while he was on deployment, and Jessie.

Who was the best new person you met this year? I met so many interesting and amazing people this year. I really can’t name just one.

*Did you start any new traditions this year? Yes. Small Business Saturday Pop-Up Marketplace at 1701 in the ViBe Creative District!

Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2016: Do what you want to do, not just what you can do.

Quote that sums up your year: “The best way for us to get something done in 20 minutes is to start working on it 20 minutes before it needs to be done.” ~Myself

Dec 31 2015

Final Resolution Update of 2015

By Lisa D. resolutions, year in review 3 Comments

Fail at updating my blog. Fail at updating resolutions. But I think I did knock a few more out since June.

Twelve months down, zero left. That makes a year.

Work & Professional Development
PMP Certification – FAILED – PMP application submitted, January 23. Approved, January 29. (Now I just have to take the test.)
ITIL Certification – FAILED
Force.com Developer Certification – ACCOMPLISHED – They changed this certification this year, I got a Salesforce App Builder certification instead, November 20. I also got a Salesforce Sales Cloud Consultant certification, November 10.
Security+ Certification – FAILED
Have everyone on my team get a Salesforce certification – ALMOST – Two people on my team have certifications. Two do not.
Attend Dreamforce – ACCOMPLISHED – Attended Dreamforce, September 15-18. It was amazing.
Find a better system to manage projects – ACCOMPLISHED – TaskRay installed in Salesforce org, April 2.
Have someone in my company create a real quote for actual products in our Salesforce org and send it to a customer (as in, launch “Phase 2” of our Salesforce project) – ACCOMPLISHED – Done. Finally. October 23.
Present something at a conference – FAILED
Start a Salesforce user group (either locally or one for my company’s suppliers) – Started a group on the Salesforce website, February 28. Started a one on Meetup (well Jeff did, but I helped invite people to join), November 15.
Apply to grad school – FAILED

Improve Social Life
Host a dinner party – FAILED
Host a brunch – ACCOMPLISHED – Hosted a brunch, July 4.
Host a poker night – ACCOMPLISHED – Played poker at John’s house after the Kentucky Derby, May 2.
Host a wine tasting – FAILED
Host at least three visitors in my guest room – ACCOMPLISHED – Stephen in town, March 21-26 and April 3. Kerri and Leah, May 22-25. Regina, July 23-27. Christina and Jon, July 31-August 2. Courtney, August 7-8. Mom, August 26-28. Aunt Debbie and Lee, September 5-7. Dad, October 9-11.
Host a crab party – ACCOMPLISHED – Hosted a crab party, July 25.
Make some actual NYE plans – ACCOMPLISHED – Having a NYE party @ John’s later, December 31.
Go to more events and less bars – ACCOMPLISHED
Watch less TV – ACCOMPLISHED
Invite people out that I don’t normally spend time with – ACCOMPLISHED
Make more friends who are girls – ALMOST – I’m working on it. I’m also accepting that maybe I just always have and always will get along better with guys.
Play poker in real life with human beings (as opposed to on my phone with other people’s avatars) — ACCOMPLISHED – Joined a poker league, February 6! Now I can play poker with real human beings once every three weeks. 🙂

For My Well-Being
Complete this 30-day yoga challenge – ALMOST – I did about half of it before I got sick in February and then never started it up again.
Mentor a child through The Up Center – FAILED
Volunteer for something – ACCOMPLISHED – I volunteered my time making this website for my friend Casey’s non-profit over the summer and in the fall.
Feel confident about my appearance in a swimsuit by February 10 – Pretty much accomplished. I bought a bunch of one-pieces and tankinis, and I ended up wearing my bikinis anyway. Then I got so sick, I lost like six pounds, so that counts, right?
Have a vegetarian week – FAILED
Run in a race – FAILED
Try a juice diet – FAILED
Post a series of gluten-free recipes – FAILED
Get contacts or prescription sunglasses – FAILED
Figure out why my eyes are so red and puffy and sensitive all the time/fix it – FAILED – I figured out why, but every doctor just says that it’s a chronic condition that will come and go, and there’s not much to be done. 🙁
Ride my bike at sunrise as many times as possible when it’s warm enough – FAILED
Cut my hair or stop using it as an excuse not to exercise (as in, “It takes so long to blow dry…”) – ACCOMPLISHED – I stopped using it as an excuse and I had Tori cut a lot more layers in it, so it takes less time to dry anyway.
Write a really nice post about Mele when I’m ready – FAILED

Travel
Visit Aunt Kim & Uncle Franky in Pennsylvania – FAILED
Spend a whole week in New Jersey – ACCOMPLISHED
Visit Nicole in Texas – FAILED
Visit my brother in Jacksonville and take a road trip down the coast of Florida to Key West – FAILED
Taste wine at some vineyards – FAILED
See Mayan ruins – ACCOMPLISHED – Saw the Tulum Ruins, February 15.
Put feet in Mediterranean Sea – ACCOMPLISHED – Put feet in Mediterranean Sea, April 14.
Take photos of a lighthouse- ACCOMPLISHED – Took photos of two lighthouses the night we went out on a dolphin cruise in Virginia Beach, August 2.
Shop at the Lilly Pulitzer Warehouse Sale – FAILED
Go back to Hawaii – FAILED
Go back to Las Vegas – FAILED
Go on at least three cool weekend trips – FAILED – Four trips to NJ do not count.

New Things to Do
Take pictures of pelicans with my telephoto lens – ACCOMPLISHED – Took photos over the summer from Chris and Terri’s boat.
Learn how to use new sewing machine – FAILED
Sew myself a dress – FAILED
Learn to play the ukulele (at least one song) – FAILED
Shoot a gun – FAILED
Roast my own coffee – ALMOST – Helped someone else roast coffee one lovely afternoon in October.
Create a book of my Instagram photos and send it to my grandparents – ACCOMPLISHED – Gave them a book of Virginia Beach photos for Christmas, December 24.
Find a creative way to keep area around coffee grinder clean – ACCOMPLISHED – I’m not sure this is creative, but I wipe off the counter once per day with a paper towel or my hand.
Paint something cool with watercolors – ACCOMPLISHED – It wasn’t with watercolors, but I did paint a mermaid at The Mermaid Factory with my mom, August 27.
Make some kind of homemade liqueur (maybe this one?) – ALMOST – I got halfway through the recipe. The mason jar is still sitting on my counter. I was supposed to finish it back in May or June or something.
Take a dance class – FAILED

Stuff I’ve Been Putting Off
Go through pictures from Hawaii/write a post about trip – ALMOST – I went through some pictures and made John a photo book from Hawaii (and one from Barcelona) for Christmas, but I didn’t write a post.
Back up all data and sell old computer – ALMOST – I backed up the data, but I didn’t sell the computer.
Get vintage Lilly Pulitzer dress hemmed/altered in time for Tulum trip – ACCOMPLISHED – Technically accomplished because I had this dress altered, and I picked it up February 8. But the lady kind of messed it up, so now I need to take it back.
Finish barstools – ACCOMPLISHED – Barstools complete, January 1.
Post a “how to” about editing photos on an iPhone – FAILED
Find a way to display some of my Instagram photos in my house – FAILED
Frame all of my new Cassidy prints and the pelican print I bought last year – ACCOMPLISHED
Start a new business – ACCOMPLISHED
Post in this blog more – FAILED

The Usual
Go horseback riding – FAILED
Go ice skating – FAILED
Go surfing – FAILED
Attend a few good concerts – ACCOMPLISHED – Hullabahoos @ The Sandler Center, January 9. Reel Big Fish/Less Than Jake @ The Norva, January 31. Andrew McMahon in the Wilderness @ 17th Street Stage, May 30. Zac Brown Band @ Farm Bureau Live, June 5. Idina Menzel @ Chrysler Hall, August 26. Reel Big Fish and The Pietasters @ 24th Street Park, September 5. The Killers and The Foo Fighters @ Dreamforce, September 17. Streetlight Manifesto @ The Norva, October 23. The Legwarmers @ The Norva, November 31.
See a few good plays – ACCOMPLISHED – Salome @ Harrison Opera House, February 3. Legally Blonde, The Musical @ The Sandler Center, April 18. Orpheus in the Underworld @ Harrison Opera House, September 27. The Little Mermaid @ The Sandler Center, October 3. Catch Me If You Can @ ODU University Theater, October 24. La Boheme @ Harrison Opera House, November 10. A Christmas Carol @ The Sandler Center, December 5. The Nutcracker @ The Sandler Center, December 18.
Read at least 10 good books – ACCOMPLISHED – Villa Incognito by Tom Robbins, Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed, A Little Princess by Francis Hodgson Burnett, The Mystery of the Crimson Ghost by Phyllis A. Whitney (you can purchase this classic gem for $.01 on Amazon…), And One For All by Theresa Nelson (end phase of reading favorite books from age 13), The Lean Startup by Eric Ries, All the Single Ladies by Dorothea Benton Frank, True Believer by Nicholas Sparks, The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins, Go Set A Watchman by Harper Lee, Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic by Jennifer L. Scott, Murder in Mount Holly by Paul Theroux, Maroon Rising by John H. Cunningham, Foundation by Isaac Asimov. (I kind of lost track because I borrowed a lot of books from Amazon, so this probably isn’t a complete list.)
Make a new resolution every month: FAILED
January: Stop fiddling with my resolutions in Evernote, and put them on my blog where they belong – Posted, January 18.
February: (Nicole said this counts, so I’m posting it.) Pay off my car – Paid off, February 21.
March: Plan trip to Spain, and grow more trees than Jeff – FAIL. Never planned trip to Spain. Just did a bunch of stuff when we got there. Growing more trees than Jeff was a pretty stupid resolution.
April: Fail.
May: Fail.
June: Uh…I don’t even know. I’ll be happy if I write another blog post before July.

Totals: 32 ACCOMPLISHED, 7 ALMOST, 36 FAILED. Pretty consistent with most years, and setting goals you may not be able to accomplish is important. 🙂

Happy new year!